WHAT DOES IT MEANS BY STANDARD?
- A BASIC FOR COMPARISON....
SO DO WE NEED TO HAVE STANDARD IN OUR LIFE?
-YES, SET YOURSELF A STANDARD WHERE YOU FELT THERE IS A POINT WHERE YOU CAN ALWAYS REFER TO.
CHLORINE AND WATER IS A GOOD EXAMPLE TO ILLUSTRATE THE STANDARD:IF YOU ARE A GLASS OF PLAIN WATER THAT YOU DON'T HAVE ANY STANDARD IN YOUR LIFE, THEN YOU ARE EASILY INFLUENCE OR AFFECTED BY PEOPLE AS WELL AS THE SITUATION AROUND YOU. FOR EXAMPLE, IF A DROP A RED DYE IS DROP INTO THE WATER, IT CHANGE COLOUR.
IF YOU ARE A GLASS OF CHLORINE,WHERE YOU HAVE SOME STANDARD IN YOU THAT YOU HAVE SET. YOU WILL NOT BEEN EASILY AFFECTED WHEN TROUBLES COMING EVEN WHEN DIFFERENT PEOPLE COMING INTO YOUR LIFE.
YOU ARE STILL ABLE TO MAINTAIN THE COLOUR OF YOURS.
SOMETIMES I FELT THAT, IT IS NOT NECESSARY TO ACCEPT THE THINGS THAT NOT BEYOND MY STANDARD. WHEN I HAD SET A STANDARD, I DON'T EVEN NEED TO BOTHER THOSE BEYOND MY STANDARD LEVEL, JUST FOCUS ON THE STANDARD THAT HAD BEEN SET. I BELIEVE WHAT WE GOING TO HAVE IS MUCH MORE PROSPERING AND SATISFYING. A FEW AREA I HAVE SET IN MY LIFE, FOR EXAMPLES:
IN MY STUDY:
TO GET 3.0 POINTER AND ABOVE, THIS WAS JUST TO ALLOW MYSELF TO SIT IN A POSITION WHERE I FELT COMFORTABLE TO...
IN MY FUTURE SPOUSE:
-SAME VISION AS MINE
-CAPABLE( DOESN'T MEAN HE HAS TO BE A GREAT MAN, JUST HE HAD THE ABILITY TO ACHIEVE SPECIFIC THINGS)
-GENEROUS(IT IS NOT NECESSARY TO GIVE ME, BUT HOPE HE IS A GIVER, BECAUSE THE GIFT BRINGS THE GIVER)
IN MY DAILY LIFE:
-HONOUR GOD, FEAR GOD AND ALWAYS PUT GOD FIRST IN EVERY SITUATION
-SAY 'NO' TO THE THINGS THAT NOT UP TO MY STANDARD OF LIFE(I AM NOT STUBBORN)
-TRY TO ACHIEVE MY STANDARD AND NEVER GO BEYOND THAT LEVEL
TRIED TO DERIVE STANDARD:
S-SCRUPULOUS
T-TENACIOUS
A-ABSTINENCE
N-NONCHALANT
D-DEMEANOUR
A-ABILITY
R-REDOUBTABLY
D-DEXTEROUS
